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Saturday, 10 January 2009

Family of dead bullying victim bullied out of town

1/12/2008 9:31:00 AM.  | Jesse Perez

The family of Alex Wildman, a 14-year-old boy who committed suicide after being bullied, has fled their Lismore home after being threatened by the same group of youths who drove the boy to death.

Showing no remorse or consideration for the grief of Alex’s family, the scoundrels have fostered a deliberate campaign of intimidation and psychological abuse against the family – continually driving past their home and making death threats.

Alex’s stepfather, Bill Kelly, has told the Daily Telegraph the hate campaign against his family had reached boiling point, and he was advised to flee town by police.

"I put my wife and the kids in the car for our safety and started driving towards Sydney. Carloads of these people, who were unknown to us, were driving past our home day and night, every hour or half hour. They threatened to burn, bash and kill," Mr Kelly said.

The family is now calling for a drastic change in attitude with respect to the way bullies are dealt with.

"We were terrorised out of town. I was the school bus driver, but neither of us is capable of working at the moment - trauma upon trauma has been heaped on us," Mrs Kelly said.

Alex committed suicide after a series of violent incidents with his Lismore schoolmates. Following the melees, he was “picked on” repeatedly, causing high levels of stress and trauma.

A new boy to the town, Alex and his family moved to Lismore at the beginning of the year, but the shift would prove to be a pathway to a mountain of trauma and grief.

Following the death of Alex, the family became mired in financial troubles due to Centerlink and housing payments, and have said they are unable to “properly grieve”.

Now, with the family turning their back on the town, they leave behind a situation where no charges have been laid against the group who were allegedly responsible for Alex’s suicide – and no road to closure in sight.

COMMENTS

Monday, 01 December 2008

how horrible for the family. you would think the police would help them. but no, they tell them to get out too. away from where their son is buried. these bullies need to be charged. i know what its like to be run out of town by bullies. small towns are a law unto their own.

Posted by: Belinda Hummie, New lambton

 

Monday, 01 December 2008

Arrest the lot of them. Absolutely disgusting.

Posted by: Paul Trood, Southport

 

Monday, 01 December 2008

Our sick society of care for only yourself has obviously escalated all the way up our essential services such as police, hospitals and government. (I need not repeat the recent obvious examples of lack of responsibility) If this is the way authorities deal with victims (ie just fuck off, It's easier for us here). Then I say the days of massive civil disobedience are drawing closer.

Posted by: Mitch OMatic, Sydney

 

Monday, 01 December 2008

There sounds like there is more to this story that cannot be told. Why couldn't the community stop the bullying? Why are the family being messed around by centerlink? It sounds as if somebody has behaved in a very anti social way sometime .. are the family conservatives .. that would be my guess.

Posted by: Happy Fun Ball, Carramar/Sydney

 

Monday, 01 December 2008

There sounds like there is more to this story that cannot be told. Why couldn't the community stop the bullying? Why are the family being messed around by centerlink? It sounds as if somebody has behaved in a very anti social way sometime .. are the family conservatives .. that would be my guess.

Posted by: Happy Fun Ball, Carramar/Sydney

Tuesday, 02 December 2008

they were new to the town happy, country people don't like new comers. they may not of looked right. they may have tried to hard to fit in. he was the school bus driver. he may have kicked a kid off the bus for bad behaviour. anything could havr started it, town folk stick together, till this happens. or as i did, i pretended i klled myself so they didn't come looking for me and i moved. my parents packed up my flat.

Posted by: Belinda Hummie, New lambton

Tuesday, 02 December 2008

Belinda, I can fully understand what you went through. I too grew up in the country and the little town where I went to school was and still is clicky as all hell. If you didn't "fit the bill" you were outcast and bullied to an alarming degree. I was bullied from the day I started kindergarten until the day I left town (15 years later) all because I had rosy cheeks - yes, rosy cheeks. Unbelievable. I still have problems to this day with self confidence from those morons in that town.

Posted by: Leanne P, Sydney

 

Monday, 01 December 2008

Isn't it funny. In other countries they run the troublemakers out of town. here we run the victims out of town. Where is the Police Minister. Why hasn't he gone to Lismore to read the riot act to the local Area Command. Oh yes i forgot. We have THAT labor government unable to do anything right.

Posted by: Denlo B, Wollongong

Monday, 01 December 2008

The process is almost complete. Our young are more akin to Lord of the Flies, and the Police are hamstrung because they cannot do anything to under 18's for fear of losing their job. Well done Hawke/Keating, another UN agreement , the Childrens Rights Bill, rights without responsibilties. Law allowing people to be driven out of their home by a mob of children.....bloody amazing.

Posted by: susan lawe, wherever

Monday, 01 December 2008

There's no such thing as a child where the cognitive processes are concerned. Some psychologists (involved with the Jamie Bulger murder) prefer to refer to them as "little adults". So called children are often the ones who commit the most brutal of crimes. They represent the human animal in its rawest state, unsoftened by life's experience.The Authorities are completely at a loss as to how to deal with these monsters. Get them into the big house where they'll be prey for other monsters.

Posted by: Opinionated JWH Party, Australia

 

Monday, 01 December 2008

Poor Kid, it must have been such an ordeal that he felt he had to take his own life.

Posted by: Cassandra Cole, Sydney

 

Monday, 01 December 2008

The way the Authorities should deal with those who bullied this family is to publically name them. If any are 18 or older conscript them into the army for 4 years and let them see how to behave around real men. i bet they won't be bullies anymore.

Posted by: Denlo B, Wollongong

 

Wednesday, 03 December 2008

Bulllying in Australia is out of control & the more we call it bullying/mobbing the less serious it sounds. We should call it what it really is psychological/emotional abuse etc. For those who are psychologically or emotionally abused it is not a crime & it should be. Any physical abuse can be reported to police & be sorted out in the courts. Everyday in Aust. we hear,read,onTV,radio abuse of others from the youngest to the very elderly is there no respect for anyone or anything anymore?

Posted by: Jeannene Frosch, Weston ACT

Wednesday, 03 December 2008

Jeannene you are absolutely right - psychological and emotional abuse should be considered crimes. I think the problem is many people don't understand the impact it can have on someone, there are no visible scars as there would be in physcial abuse. Lots of people think if you have a psychological/emotional/mental problem, then you're a joke, it's something to laugh at. Maybe we could teach kids in our schools had to withstand and avoid this sort of abuse so that the bullies dont' win.

Posted by: Cassandra Cole, Sydney

 

Thursday, 04 December 2008

This story is absolutely terrible. I've been researching similar cases for an independant research task i'm currently doing for school and the results ive found are shocking.

Posted by: Nicole Wilson, Dubbo

 

Wednesday, 10 December 2008

Oh, Nicole, stop it. The results couldn't possibly be that shocking. Get a grip. Students tend to use hyperbole so freely these days. Just report the facts. No need to envelop the facts with hysteria.

Posted by: Pithy Opiner, Stockton, California

 
 

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